One of the first challenges that new parents face is choosing a
name for their new baby. This may sound like no-brainer and
something low on the list of priorities, when faced with the
seemingly daunting world of parenthood. Even so, choosing baby
names can be very time-consuming, frustrating and even a source
of consternation for new parents.
There are so many things to consider when selecting the perfect
name for your child. Many parents don't have a clue about where
to begin and feel completely overwhelmed. The best place to
start is with a list. Both parents should take a few minutes and
jot down the first ten baby names that come to mind that they
would deem suitable for the new baby. It's not as difficult as
it sounds - it's actually surprising, how many unique and
quality names have been stored in your memory, just as you go
through your every day life. Make sure that you list names for
both boys and girls, unless you already know the sex of your
baby.
The Complete Book of Baby Names has it all! For under
$10, you can use this book to start making a list of your favorite
baby names. Let the book do the work for you! It's in stock and
can be shipped overnight too. Simply make a list from these top 100 baby names, say 50 baby names for girls and 50 baby
names for boys so you have 100 baby names altogether.
Once the lists are complete, both parents should sit down and
eliminate any names that either parent objects to. Narrow down
your search using Even if only
a couple of names remain between the two lists, this is a good
start.
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The next step, after this brainstorming session, is to define
some agreed upon parameters for your baby names. Think about and
discuss your preferences for cultural backgrounds, family names
and number of syllables. You can also narrow it down to include
only names starting with specific letters. Make sure that you
keep plenty of paper handy and be aware when you are out and
about. Listen for potential names when you're in the grocery
store, listening to the radio and walking through a park. You'll
be surprised at how tuned in you become.
The Internet is helpful when hunting for baby names and meanings
of baby names. Using any search
engine, type in the phrase 'baby names' and a huge amount of
websites will appear. You could probably find the 2005 top baby
names pretty easily. There are even
forums where you can browse other people's name ideas and post
your own to get unbiased feedback as you work through your
list of choices.
As you start to narrow down your list, pay special attention to
the potential for teasing. Think of any negative words that may
rhyme with or sound like the names you are considering. Also,
look out for undesirable letter combinations formed by the
initials of any baby names that have made it on your list.
Try writing out the names that you come up with and make sure to
say them out loud, to ensure that they roll of the tongue with
ease. Again, be aware of any similarities to negative words or
phrases that may be formed by certain name combinations.
It is also a good idea, to ask friends and family for their
thoughts and ideas. But beware! Your parents are from another
generation and they may be stuck in a rut when it comes to good
baby name choices. Too, siblings can be very opinionated and may
try to take over the naming process. Just remember, that getting
opinions on your baby names can be helpful, but at the end of
the day, what you name your baby is up to you and your partner.
If certain people have an aversion to a
name that is high on your list, stick to your guns! Once people
get to know your baby and form an affectionate bond, you will
find that they quickly forget any negative connotation they may
have had with the name, and come to love the baby, name and
all!!
So remember, choosing a name for your baby is a big job, but it
can be a lot of fun and it's a good way to get your mind off the
aches and pains that come with pregnancy. Going over baby names
is something you can do with your partner, and it allows them to
play an active role in the baby's life even before the actual
birth. So rather than waiting to the last minute, take the time
to go through the process, and you'll be sure to select a name
that is perfect for your baby and lasts a lifetime!
About the Author Article about Baby Names is by Jennifer Clark, co-founder of
MaternityCollections.com
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